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BETRAYAL!!!
(I'm feeling sad)
Betrayal has many definitions, but i am only concerned with one The breaking of a trust or confidence that produces a conflict in a relationship.
Fear and anger are usually 2 causes for betrayal, Now how much fear and or anger I guess depends on the person or persons involved.
The are several effects from being the subject of betrayal, the first being emotional distress, and the more emotional time you had invested in the other person , the harder the effects upon you. Next up would be loss of trust in that person. Trust is very fragile and can be lost in an instant. Finally there is justice, if you have been betrayed more than likely you would seek some form of justice. Actually what justice means here is doing something to make me feel better.
There are several types of justice. In a relationship type betrayal, revenge is usually called for, but not necessarily right. The idea is you want the other person to suffer as much or more than you did. Usually what happens is you both end up hurt even more.
The reason for this blog is that I was the person who was betrayed by someone on LiveVideo this past week, I have lost all trust in that person, I do not speak to this person anymore, and anyone who is friends with this person should be careful, because they are a game player.
If I was such a terrible person I would seek revenge on this person but i do not, I am not a hater and I feel sorry for them. They have many issues to deal with including self abuse So thats why i have decided to do nothing and move on with my life, I just hope this person gets help for their problems before they get into real trouble.
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